Hello!
My recommendation is that you lay along the entire wall with isodrän. Why?
Well, Isodrän acts as an insulating factor; some say it raises the temperature by 2-4°C in, for example, the basement, which is quite significant for energy-saving purposes.
If you were to stop 30-40 cm below the ground surface, there is a risk that the water sinking along the wall will be absorbed by the wall, leading to an unnecessarily high moisture content.
I vouch for Isodrän even though regular platon works well to prevent water against the wall; I have it myself.
NO, you should not compact or pack the gravel along the wall; just fill it in and let it settle naturally. TIP: keep 30-40 cm against the house foundation with gravel or macadam, no garden plants or grass there.
I hope you got some tips.
Good luck