Personally, I never nail into the tongue, as it's difficult to fix the next board since the board being nailed is pressed downward...
I usually nail visibly, for example with finishing nails, or alternatively place a cover over it...
I also first only nail the "Rear" nails, meaning those located at the rear edge against the preceding board... then when I've nailed the next REAR, I nail the front of the last board...
A nail gun is taboo for me when it comes to "fine carpentry"... hammer and nails are the best, in my opinion.
Additionally, if you "save" the last hammer strike, you avoid the ugly hammer mark that can occur if you're not careful...