In the holes for our brine pipes, I filled them with foam sealant from the inside to reduce the risk of small animals getting in that way. Then we drained, so closest to the foundation wall there's isodrän, which ensures there's no standing water there, and we haven't had any problems with water intrusion, but we didn't before we drained either... so your idea of some 8-16 is probably not wrong if a little water gets in today.
Place a piece of geotextile at the bottom of the hole and also over it once you've filled it so the gravel doesn't disappear into the ground or soil creeps into the gravel. Compact the gravel as you fill it so it stays "still" and fills all voids.
I don't think it will wear on the hoses unless you're driving heavy vehicles next to the facade.