The smallest dimension for glulam is usually 42x180 mm. The building rule in the example is made of spruce and isn't particularly suitable for your oak table. Instead, look at planed wood, which is usually found along with moldings and similar items. 33x95 mm pine should work. There is also planed oak. Oak is moreover stiffer than pine. There won't be large loads on these legs. Some form of carriage bolt might be suitable for screwing the crosses together. Keep in mind that the upper parts of the cross need to be joined in some way for it to hold. The crosses need to be set in a bit under the tabletop to prevent too much flexing in the middle.